Well hello again ladies, Today I want to talk about some things I saw on the bus on my way to work. I saw a girl wearing boy clothes with a short hair cut. I saw a girl with rainbow colored hair, a Beatles shirt and leopard print leggins with what looked like a pink tutu, knee high combat boots, tattoos and gauges in her ears. I saw an old woman in skin tight jeans, six inch heals, and a Gucci bag.The one thing that all these women had in common was the huge smile on their faces. I couldn't help but smile because they were so happy to just be themselves no matter what anybody else might think. It hurts me to see women trying to change who they are to be accepted by society or dressing like hookers because they think its the only way to get attention. If you pay attention you'll see that these woman very rarely smile. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman, believe me ladies if you are happy with the way you look it will radiate from your pores and people will take notice and you'll get the attention that you crave.
So Shonnas thought for today is this: Be yourself at any cost, your the only one who can control your happiness therefore your opinion is the only one that really matters.
This is an opinion I can agree with, however don't forget that confidence does not come easy for some...
ReplyDeleteSo true but everyone has to start somewhere so ladies start by asking yourself..Why do I care so much what other people think of me? Then say to yourself ...how other people see me is their problem not mine!!!!
ReplyDeleteIn order for you to be affected by what other people think of you almost always hinges on whether or not you value their opinion. That is why the people closest to you will always have the biggest impact on how you think of yourself. I agree with you that women should always try very hard to ignore the opinions of society in general and also try very hard not to allow the people closest to them to rob them of their self worth. You should strive to be happy with who you are and not allow anyone or anything to stand in the way of that. I think you are on the right track with this blog and I sincerely hope that you are able to help even 1 woman to learn to love herself.
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